Additional Information on Chapter 4, pages 51 to 53 A broader discussion of the nature of devastation was included in an earlier prescript in this chapter. The focus here is on recovery. In the previous discussion the ten steps to recovery from devastation are listed with the same brief discussion provided in The Compatibility Code. WeRead more
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More Information for Chapter 4, pages 47, and 55-57 Three and a half pages in the Compatibility Code deal with the issue of Jealousy-what is it, when is it inappropriate, how do you deal with it. Since the introduction to the issue of jealousy is well explored in the book we devote our attention hereRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 4, page 58 One of the better on-line sources of information on this topic is found at Psych Central, particularly an article written by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. This is the link: http://psychcentral.com/therapst.htm What follows is a list of items you should consider in choosing a therapist. Some of these are includedRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 4, page 60 The Compatibility Code identifies in a few paragraphs what exactly we’re talking about here: It is establishing a level of emotional health and stability that allows you to negotiate the ups and downs of life without “crashing” and make wise relational decision even if it tough, painful choices areRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 4, page 55 Additional ResourcesOn being emotionally divorced: http://www.womensonlinemagazine.com/family/are-you-emotionally-divorced/ Chapter 4 Resources Prescripts for Relationship Health Decisions and Intense Feelings Jealousy Abandonment Anger Emotional Germs Cynicism Devastation Guilt Pain and Need Powerlessness Rejection Violation Anger Resolution Process Recovery from Devastation Jealousy Management Professional Help: Choosing a Therapist, Expectation, Procedures Emotional ImmuneRead more
Additional Resources for Chapter 5, page 67 The objective of this link is to provide you an array of qualities and characteristics under each of the ten topics designed to assist you in creating your own list of personal qualities. We follow the order of topics from the Personal Characteristics Chart—located at the end of Read more
Additional Information for Chapter 5, page 71 In the Compatibility Code (page 71) we discuss the issue of the accuracy of your self-generated list of personal qualities. No one sees themselves entirely objectively and it is therefore useful to consider the opinions of others to gain a more accurate picture. Just as we don’t seeRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 5, page 73 We refer here to the chart of personal qualities you have filled out (or ARE filling out, or PLAN to fill out). As suggested in The Compatibility Code all people have negative qualities and some of these negative qualities have the power to severely compromise the quality ofRead more
Additional information on Chapter 6, page 80 Additional Resources On discovering the things that drive you: http://visitcafe.com/general-information/eight-powerful-questions-that-will-change-your-life.html Chapter 6 Resources Prescripts for Relationship Health Essence Qualities, Guidlines and Discussions Reference and Research Psychosocial Development Psychosocial Development Resources Reference and Research Her Individual Essence Qualities from pages 85 & 88(PDF, 127 KB) Book Resources by ChapterRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 7, page 95 The objective of this link is to provide you an array of qualities and characteristics under each of the ten topics designed to assist you in creating a picture of your ideal other. We follow the order of topics from the Ideal Other Chart-located at the end of theRead more
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